Thursday, January 15, 2009

How do you Build Broken Relationships?

There are times when circumstance hit us so hard, that we feel really broken. It comes unexpectedly... and when it comes, things are not the same again... and there is no way you can go back to the way things have been. Sometimes the result can be very painful that you end up with nothing but broken relationships.

Where do we go when everything else falls apart? How do you keep yourself back on your feet when your strength has left? So you see. Things are different, and you realized that people you know are not really the person you thought they were, even if you know them all your life. And you end up getting hurt even more.

You tried so hard to make things okay, but with all the effort, everything seems to be useless, because no matter what you do, things will never be the same again. How do you brace yourself to still continue to live your life with a smile on your face, when you know that deep inside, you are deeply shattered? Why do you have to forgive someone, who doesn't even ask for it? How do you forget? How do you start all over without remembering that painful past? How do you look at someone without a picture of yesterday that caused you to change? How do you build broken relationships?

1 comment:

lanzaker said...

adaaaahhhh... it would never be the same again! make another "rhon" re create ur self! Use the negative feeling as motivation not a distraction...\\

I experienced also that kind of pain and I have moved on because lisod magpalansang sa usa ka feeling nga disturbo ug useless!..

c ya..